Helping Women Over 35 Find Love | First Date Stories

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Jessica and Sean

Can your intuition steer your wrong? In our Season 3 premiere, Jessica discloses what happened after she took a chance and asked her cat’s veterinarian on a date. Sean and Jessica seemed compatible at first. Then she made a shocking discovery.


Why Men Don’t Reply

Men on the dating app you’re using catch your eye. You swipe right and message them, but don’t hear back. It can be so frustrating! Why don’t men reply? Here are some of the reasons.


Overcome Shame and Fall in Love

Even the most successful, confident, attractive, self-aware, and sociable people have insecurities about their lovability. Deep-seated shame can make dating and relationships difficult no matter who you are. Fortunately, there are ways to overcome shame and develop unbreakable love for yourself and others.


Taking Care of You

Recent months have unleashed an unanticipated wave of stress, uncertainty, and outrage. Your body yearns for your attention, compassion and touch to help her cope and rejuvenate. She’s tired of being abandoned. It’s time to take care of you.


Digital Date Ideas to Get You Through Coronavirus

Even as many restaurants and bars start to reopen, it could still be a while until you feel comfortable meeting a new guy in person. Not to worry! There are plenty of fun digital date ideas that you two can do together, even though you’re physically apart.


A Gift to Yourself During the Pandemic

A silver lining of the pandemic is the special gift of time to simply focus on what matters. Use some of this time to talk to your body, asking her and giving her what she needs, so you can re-emerge from quarantine with self-love and connection.


Speak the Lingo

Be up-to-date on the latest terms, acronyms and innuendos with our Modern Day Dating Dictionary.

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